My world collapsed when I learned the leadership team was changing direction and my teacher-librarian role was made redundant. Dramatic, I know, but that’s how it felt. The following days proved to be challenging. In my previous post, I explored the idea of losing professional identity because our lives are so built around our jobs.

The problem is, it’s complete nonsense. We have it the wrong way around. Work helps us secure necessities like food, water, shelter, and clothing. It shouldn’t consume our entire lives. Finding a healthy balance between work and life is essential. It’s time to remember what truly matters. Your well-being should be your top priority. Or you may find it difficult to cope when you’re made redundant.
After the initial shock, I made a decision; I would not wallow in self-pity. I planned to change how I live my daily life before starting a new job. I needed to reflect and find different ways of approaching life. Sustainable momentum is the buzzword: it’s about adapting, improving, and escaping stagnation and decline. My strategy to combat panic and depression involved completing my book, morning walks, quick HIIT sessions, and reading self-improvement books. This was me taking action.
With the time I had from being made redundant, I deliberately decided to implement positive changes, and that decision remains strong nine months on. Progress and moving forward don’t have to be frantic. Take your time with the changes to prepare for the next phase. The job search can take an emotional toll. You are taking a risk by putting yourself back into the workforce. The positive aspect is that you are prepared and have experienced significant growth, both in your personal and professional life.
You will face rejections, but interviews will also come your way. It’s crucial to gain insights from these events, change your methods, and revise your CV and application letter. You will get the job. Don’t be too hard on yourself; consider these as advancements toward achieving your goal.
Practical steps
- Set weekly goals, not daily pressure
- Balance applications, networking, and rest
- Use curiosity instead of desperation
- Say no to advice that overwhelms you
Slow, consistent steps beat frantic leaps every time.
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